(68) Light

Someone informed me that I should bring people to the light. I was speechless and got goosebumps all over my body.

Someone recently asked me if I was working with older people. “No,” was my response, “I’ve mostly worked with young people at my work. Why the question?” The person informed me that I should bring people to the light. I was speechless and got goosebumps all over my body. Many questions came up in my mind. The most important ones to me were “who am I” and “why me” and “why only older people?” Questions I couldn’t raise at that moment, let alone to understand the answers. At that moment my attitude was like… “come on” … “not right now” … or “act normal and stay on the ground with both feet.”

The message kept haunting me in the following days. Questions like… what if… and how… Most people who know me, know me really well, would say “He was able to solve most problems in his life so far. He will be able to solve this one too.” Thank you for your trust in me, but… personally I’ve a completely different opinion about this topic.

I’ve tried to ignore the message completely; it was impossible!

That’s why I will give it a try nevertheless and I also hope to take you on this journey of discovery. It would make my day when you provide me with your comments so I can keep staying on the ground with both feet.

In addition to the physical meaning light has also an emotional meaning in our language. At one extreme of the balance with The Light a reference is made to the warm and divine light of the Almighty. The other extreme of the balance is dominated by the gloomy light, as the light in dark cloudy weather that makes you almost sad or depressive. And somewhere in the middle of the balance has light, as when the Sun is shining, the meaning of joy, cheerful, loving, understanding and freedom.

Just to be clear, I actually don’t know what, who, or where the loving light of the Almighty is, but I have a strong feeling that it would be great to be in The Light. What is also clear to me is that The Light is not in our world; when that would be the case our world would have been much more peaceful with infinitely more love between people than we experience today.

And, how should I interpret in the message the word “bring?” Does it mean that I only prepare the “journey” for the person concerned and that he or she “travels” all alone? Or, is it the intention that I should accompany the person concerned on his or her “journey”; from home to The Light so to say?

In my culture we have concepts as: palliative care, euthanasia and terminal care. In this context in my opinion the “journey” of the person concerned is arranged partly and/or the person is accompanied for a part of the “journey.” People working in this field are very empathic; I have a lot of appreciation and great respect for them.

Yet I have a strong feeling that personally I shouldn’t seek for solutions towards palliative care, euthanasia and terminal care. What is more, I’m not even capable to freely travel at will between our world in which we live and the world of The Light of the Almighty.

It’s all very frustrating. Nevertheless, I can’t ignore the message and have a very strong feeling that I need to find a solution to this issue.

(UK-51) Post ImageBut, maybe I can consider this in a much more pragmatic way? In other words, much lighter. You can also guide and coach people from the dark gloomy light, where people are sad, to the joyful light somewhere half way the balance where people are happy again. When I approach it in this way then I can help translating sadness or grief into joy. Then I can help people to obtain new insights while removing the sharp edges of their grief so they can continue with their life. Yes, in this way I can bring and guide people to the light in our world. That would be awesome; both for me and for those involved.

Author: Hans Fransen

Founder of the Mourn & Grief Foundation

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